Monday, December 7, 2009

wearing niqab :

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HUJAH2 YANG MEWAJIBKAN PEMAKAIAN PURDAH

1.Firman Allah: وقل للمؤمننات يغضضن من أبصرهن ويحفظن فروجهن

maksudnya: dan katakanlah kpd muslimah tundukkanlah pandanganmu dan peliharalah kemaluanmu.......

Di sini disuruh supaya menjaga kemaluan, ia juga termasuk menjaga segala yg mendorong ke arah rosak nyer kemaluan/kehormatan. Ini kerana memperlihatkan muka kpd org ramai sudah tentunya mendorong nafsu syahwat lelaki dan akhirnya akan pergi kpd kejadian yg lebih jauh... Na'uzubillah.........


2.Firman Allah: ولأ يبدين زينتهن اءلا ما ظهرمنها

maksudnya: dan janganlah pamerkan hiasan mereka kecuali apa yg zahir daripadanya...

Ibnu Mas'ud berkata bahwa apa yg zahir drpd mereka ialah pakaian. Ia disahihkan oleh Syaikh Mustafa Al-Adawi dlm kitab Jami' Ahkamin Nisa'. Ini bermaksud wanita itu wajib menutup mukanya sekali....


3. Firman Allah: وليضربن بخمورهن على جيوبهن

masudnya: dan hendaklah mereka melabuhkan pakaian mereka hingga ke leher dan dada mereka...

Berdasarkan ayat ini, wanita itu wajib menutupi dada dan leher mereka, maka ,menutup muka adalah lebih wajib kerana wajah adalah tempat kecantikan dan godaan. Bagaimana mungkin agama yg bijaksana ini memerintahkan menutup dada dan leher tetapi membiarkan muka terbuka.

4.Firman Allah:ولا يضربن بأرجلهن ليعلم ما يخفين من زينتهن

maksudnya: dan janganlah mereka menghentakkan kaki2 mereka agar diketahui perhiasan yg mereka sembunyikan......


Allah melarang muslimah menghentakkan kaki2 mereka kerana khuatir akan terdengar perhiasan2 mereka seperti gelang kaki dan sebagainya. Hal ini kerana risau akan laki2 yg terdengar gelang2 kaki akan tergoda,maka godaan yg ditimbulkan kerana terlihat muka adalah lebih besar lagi. Apatah lagi dengan solekan2 yg berlebihan, pastinya ia lebih berhak ditutup untuk mengelakkan fitnah yg besar.

.5.Firman Allah (sorilah... dh malas nk tulis arab):
"apabila kamu meminta sesuatu keperluan drpd mereka, maka mintalah dr belakang tabir. Cara itu lebih menyucikan bagi hatimu dan hati mereka." (Al-Ahzab:53)


Ayat ini jelas menunjukkan bahawa wanita wajib menutup diri mereka dari laki2 termasuk menutup wajah. Hikmahnya ialah untuk menjaga kesucian hati2 org yg beriman


6. Ummu Athiyah berkata: " Pada dua hari raya, kami diperintahkan untuk mengeluarkan wanita2 haidh untuk menghadiri jemaah kaum muslimin dan doa' mereka. Seorang wanita bertanya, "wahai rasulullah, seorang di antara kami tidak memiliki jilbab(tutup muka) bolehkah dia keluar..? Maka Rasulullah menjawab "hendaklah kwan2nya meminjamkan jilbab mereka"


7. Aisyah berkata: " jika rasulullah meihat wanita2 di zaman ini apa yg kita lihat, nescaya beliau melarang wanita ke masjid"

perkataan Aisyah ini adalah setelah beliau wafat, dan ketika itu para wanita sudah tidak terlalu menjaga adab2 mereka. Antaranya tidak memakai jilbab(purdah). Ini menjelaskann bahawa jika seseorang muslimah itu tidak memakai jilbab, ia dilarang untuk keluar rumah.

ini adalah sebahagian hujah drpd 26 hujah yg ana dapati drpd para ulama' dan mereka2 yg ahli dn layak dlm bidang ini....

Antara ulama' yg berpendapat bahawa purdah itu wajib ialah:

1.Syaikh Muhammad Al-Shinqithi
2.Syaikh Abdul Aziz bin Baz
3.Syaikh Muhammad bin Shalih Al-Utsaimin
4.Syaik Abdullah bin Ibrahim Al Jarullah
5.Syaikh Bakar Abu Zaid
6.Syaikh Musthafa Al-Adhawi
dan lain2 lagi.........

DALIL YANG TIDAK MEWAJIBKAN

1. Firman Allah: ولأ يبدين زينتهن اءلا ما ظهرمنها

maksudnya:dan janganlah kamu pamerkan perhiasan kamu kecuali apa yg zahir drpdnya..

Ibnu Abbas berkata di sini yg dimaksudkan dgn apa yang zahir ialah muka dan tapak tangan
tetapi pendapat ini disangkal oleh Syeikh Musthafa Al-Adhawi dlm kitab Jami' Ahkamin Nisa'

2. Firman Allah: قل للمؤمنين يغضوا من أبصرهم ويحفظ فروجهم

maksudnya: dan katakanlah kpd org mu'min tundukkan pandangan mereka dan peliharalah kemaluan mereka....

Ayat ini menunjukkan bahwa ada sesuatu pada wanita yg mungkin dibolehkan untuk dibuka yg pada masa yg sama dilarang dilihat oleh lelaki.

ia juga dikuatkan dengan beberapa hadis antaranya:
"Wahai Ali, janganlah kamu ikutkan pandangan pertamamu dengan pandangan kedua, kerana engkau berhak pada pandangan pertama tetapi tidak pada pandangan kedua..

3. Hadis nabi:

Dari Aisyah R.A bahwa Asma' bintu Abu bakar telah menemui Rasulullah dgn memakai pakaian yg tipis, maka Rasullah berpaling drpdnya dan berkata,: Wahai Asma', jika seseorang wanita itu telah mendapat haidh (baligh) , maka tidak patut terlihat drnya kecuali ini dan ini ( Rasulullah menunjuk kpd tapak tangan dan muka)

4.Hadis nabi:

Rasulullah berjalan bersama Al-Fadhl bin Abbas, kemudian ia berhenti untuk memberi periungatan kpd org ramai... ketika itu datanglah seorang wanita yg cantik dari suku Khats'am meminta fatwa dr Rasulullah. Maka terlihatlah Al-Fadhl akan wanita itu dan terpesona ia. Nabi melihat Al-Fadhl dgn pandangan yg tajam , tetapi dia tetap memandang ke arah wanita tersebut. Maka Rsulullah pun berundur ke belakang dan memegang dagu Al-Fadhl dan memalingkan wajah Al-Fadhl...

Hadis ini menunjukkan bahawa dibolehkan memperlihatkan muka kpd org ramai....


what I think..


why we need to stop others
wearing Niqab? I think n believe we should encourage all muslimah to
wear it instead.. it's same with a guy who wants to wear jubah/
kurta/serban/miswak/celak/attar oil etc..aren't those Sunnah of
Rasulullah? should we prevent him? or encourage him, ourself, n also
others? think bout it.
jazakallah..

Sunday, December 6, 2009

how to get rid of evil desires

Praise be to Allaah.

Sexual desire is something that has been created in man and it cannot be got rid of. Getting rid of it is not something that is required of the Muslim; rather what is required of him is to refrain from using it in haraam ways, and to use it in the ways that Allaah has permitted.

The problem of desire in a young woman may be solved by taking two steps.

The first step is to reduce and weaken the things that may provoke desire in a person. This may be achieved in a number of ways, including the following:

1 – Lowering the gaze and refraining from looking at that which Allaah has forbidden. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts)”

[al-Noor 24:31]

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not follow one glance with another, for the first is allowed but not the second.” There are many sources of haraam looking, such as looking directly at young men and thinking about their attractive looks, or looking at pictures in magazines and movies.

2 – Avoiding reading stories and novels which focus on the sexual aspect, and avoiding reading internet websites which deal with such topics.

3 – Keeping away from bad company.

4 – Avoiding thinking about desire as much as possible. Thinking in and of itself is not haraam, but if one thinks about it for too long, that may lead a person to haraam actions.

5 – Spending one's time in useful pursuits, because spare time may lead one to fall into haraam things.

6 – Avoiding as much as possible going to public places where young men and women mix.

7 – If a girl is tested with studying in a mixed environment, and cannot find any alternative, she has to remain modest, serious and dignified, and should avoid sitting with young men and speaking to them as much as possible. She should restrict her relationships to friendships with righteous female classmates.

The second step is:

To strengthen the factors that will prevent one acting in accordance with one’s desires. This is achieved in a number of ways, including the following:

1 – Strengthening the faith in one’s heart and strengthening one’s relationship with Allaah. This may be achieved by remembering Allaah a great deal, reading Qur’aan, thinking of the names and attributes of Allaah, and doing a lot of naafil prayers. Belief strengthens the heart and soul, and it helps one to resist temptation.

2 – Fasting, as taught by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he said: “O young men, whoever among you can afford to, let him get married, for it is more effective in lowering the gaze and in guarding one’s chastity. Whoever cannot afford it, then let him fast, for it will be a shield for him.” This is addressed to young men, but it also includes young women.

3 – Strengthening one’s resolve and willpower, for this will make a young woman able to resist and control her desires.

4 – Remembering what Allaah has prepared for righteous young women. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Verily, the Muslims (those who submit to Allaah in Islam) men and women, the believers men and women (who believe in Islamic Monotheism), the men and the women who are obedient (to Allaah), the men and women who are truthful (in their speech and deeds), the men and the women who are patient (in performing all the duties which Allaah has ordered and in abstaining from all that Allaah has forbidden), the men and the women who are humble (before their Lord Allaah), the men and the women who give Sadaqaat (i.e. Zakaah and alms), the men and the women who observe Sawm (fast) (the obligatory fasting during the month of Ramadaan, and the optional Nawafil fasting), the men and the women who guard their chastity (from illegal sexual acts) and the men and the women who remember Allaah much with their hearts and tongues. Allaah has prepared for them forgiveness and a great reward (i.e. Paradise)”

[al-Ahzaab 33:35]

5 – Thinking about the lives of righteous women who guarded their chastity, such as Maryam, whom Allaah praises in the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning):

“And Maryam (Mary), the daughter of ‘Imraan who guarded her chastity. And We breathed into (the sleeve of her shirt or her garment) through Our Rooh [i.e. Jibreel (Gabriel)], and she testified to the truth of the Words of her Lord [i.e. believed in the Words of Allaah: “Be!” and he was; that is ‘Eesa (Jesus), son of Maryam (Mary) as a Messenger of Allaah], and (also believed in) His Scriptures, and she was of the Qaanitoon (i.e. obedient to Allaah)”
[al-Tahreem 66:12]

And thinking about the immoral, fallen women, and comparing between the two types, for there is a huge difference between them.

6 – Choosing righteous companions and spending time with them, so that they can help one another to obey and worship Allaah.

7 – Comparing the effects of immediate fulfillment of desire when a girl responds to haraam, which is followed by loss of pleasure and all that is left is regret and sorrow, with patience and striving against one’s whims and desires, and realizing that the pleasure of conquering one’s whim and desires is far greater than the pleasures of enjoying haraam things.

8 – Seeking help by calling upon Allaah and asking Him for help. The Qur’aan tells us the lesson to be learned from the story of Yoosuf (peace be upon him):

“He said: ‘O my Lord! Prison is dearer to me than that to which they invite me. Unless You turn away their plot from me, I will feel inclined towards them and be one (of those who commit sin and deserve blame or those who do deeds) of the ignorant’

So his Lord answered his invocation and turned away from him their plot. Verily, He is the All‑Hearer, the All‑Knower”

[Yoosuf 12:33 – interpretation of the meaning]

wallahua'lam